I dont really have a PARTICULAR theme but I just want someone to reflect on this…..Hope it helps!
You see, there comes a time in our lives where we need to let go of certain things…be it friendships, jobs, relationships, unhealthy environments or what have you. But this is not entirely easy. Because as humans, we tend to be clingy to certain people and situations such that when we are not getting the response we are used to or even when that particular thing is draining us…it is like we still want to keep on fighting to remain in that situation or maintain that friendship that is draining us, that job that we hate, that neighbourhood we detest and what have you. It is not bad to fight for what you want or believe in….but sometimes you need to arrive at the conclusion that it is TIME TO MOVE ON.
Why? Because like I would normally say (I cannot coman kill myself)…meaning nothing is worth dying for…because at the end of the day you lose out on many things you could have been investing that time into and reap better benefits other than fighting an already lost battle. I have also come to realise that as we grow in life, some people will exit. For whatever reason it may be…probably their seasons in our lives are over and instead of thinking and contemplating on who did or did not do what…just accept it as one of those things that happens…after all some people NEED to go so that others can come…Simple!
Personally, I love being alone mostly..I am more of an introvert and I appreciate it mostly…It is actually in recent times that I beame quite sociable. Though it gets boring sometimes being alone sometimes, it actually allows you to reflect and have conversations with yourself….I do this a lot and one family member told me to stop because it will appear to someone I am mad…Really? If I can pick up a phone and be talking to a friend or whoever, why cant I do same with myself…After all whatever I say does not travel…I have come to appreciate this because I have realised that at the end of the day, everyone can leave you especially in times when you need them the most. Your friends, family members or whoever and you will be left on your own.
So, invest more time in yourself, have those chats, read those books, have that quiet time for self reflection, travel if you want to, quit that job that is draining you, stop checking up on people who have made it clear they no longer care about you. Happy yourself and realise that Life is too short and is already stressful enough for you to further complicate things for yourself.
Always remember to take care of YOURSELF first. Be Blessed. Enjoy Life. You Only Live Once (YOLO)!